♥ WHAT IS RELATIONAL REALITY?

AND, WHY IS IT IMPORTANT! ♥ 

By Joseph P. Faust, Founder LoveLife University

 

How many times, in the past, have you experienced people fighting about whose reality is right? Here’s a way that my coach shared with me to “create reality” with another person, that works well for people who seek to be respectful of both “self and other”.

The first step in creating a reality with someone is to define personal perspectives on the topic. For example, related to Topic #1 you identify three key factors – A, B, and C. And then the other person identifies their three key factors – A, B, and F. Given this, you’ve identified two similar, yet different PERSONAL PERSPECTIVES.

 

Since you’ve identified that, “A, B” are key factors you can now say your SHARED REALITY on Topic #1, is “A, B”.

 

Clearly identifying SHARED REALITY or OUR REALITY, is an important place to begin when you are interested in mutual fulfillment and sustainable results. Once you’ve identified some SHARED REALITY it’s easier to create a SHARED INTENTION and to identify COOPERATIVE COMPONENTS for whatever you both desire to co-create.

 

A SHARED INTENTION is that which you both desire to experience (and includes the absence of that which you both desire the absence of). A COOPERATIVE COMPONENT is, “anything that is supportive of creating the desired experience.”

 

For example, if you both desire a massage, and you both imagine you would enjoy massaging each other. Then you could each be a COOPERATIVE COMPONENT towards the other experiencing a massage. Additional COOPERATIVE COMPONENTS could be coconut oil, music, time, space, and an authentic discussion regarding personal boundaries, desires, and current physical and emotional conditions.

 

Key takeaways:

  • For a high RELATIONAL REALITY, it’s important to create: SHARED REALITY, SHARED INTENTION, COOPERATIVE COMPONENTS.
  • The more COOPERATIVE COMPONENTS you have toward something, the easier it is to create it.
  • SHARED REALITY and SHARED INTENTIONS are exceptionally powerful COOPERATIVE COMPONENTS that support successful communication.